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Surviving Infidelity is possible; for some that means starting again, for others a parting of the ways. Whatever the type of infidelity, whether physical, or an emotional affair, it is a turbulent time for all involved. Having to cope with and survive the effects of the affair is a trial for any couple. Understanding why men cheat; coping with the discovery of a cheating husband; spotting an emotional affair, dealing with online cheating whatever your situation, I hope the articles on this site will help you on your healing journey.
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Surviving children of affairs
Can you survive your partner having a child from the affair?
Perhaps one of the most painful outcomes of an affair is discovering that your partner’s mistress is pregnant. Children of affairs are far more common than many people realize. A site that deals with this is www.alovechild.com. Sometimes it may be many years after the infidelity that a secret child of an affair is discovered. It is always difficult to handle and there are absolutely no easy solutions. In the heat of the moment you may say things you regret because the knowledge of the child is so hurtful. This is betrayal that is visible, tangible, has an outcome that you can see and have to live with for the rest of your life. Perhaps that is why this particular aspect of infidelity is so traumatic. [Read More...]
Having a love child the celebrity way
It seems that fathering a child from a secret affair is a popular past time among the rich and famous! People in the public eye tend to keep this a secret and when the news breaks there are some divided opinions. See A Love Child to read these opinions! Rarely do we understand the damage done to the child itself, see Children of affairs
Firstly, there is the fact that they had an affair – frowned on by many but also applauded by some as a sign of virility! What about the shame of this situation? These disclosures seem to fall into two categories; the secret love child discovered (by the press) after many years; or the publicly pregnant mistress selling her story to the tabloid newspapers. There is a very different morality in play here, depending on the situation. [Read More...]
Fight fatigue, boost your energy and handle your
Relationship break downs can lead to fatigue and make dealing with the situation even more difficult. You need to learn how to fight fatigue and get your energy back to walk that long road of recovery. When you are faced with the distress of infidelity; the discovery of cheating or the break down of your relationship your emotional energy takes a dive. You just want to crawl under the bed covers and cry. You don’t want to eat, you cannot sleep for worrying and the pent up anger you are feeling drains you of energy and leaves you feeling tired and stressed. [Read More...]
Fighting an emotional affair and saving your
Are you up to fighting an emotional affair, do you even know your relationship may be threatened by one?
Does it feel like there is a distance between you and your partner? Have you stopped talking about anything other than the mundane? Do they seem unwilling to discuss work with you, where before they always updated you on their day?