Ways to catch a cheating spouse

So you suspect your spouse is cheating, what do you do now? There are many ways to confirm your suspicions, but the main problem is, your spouse is hiding the affair! If you want to catch a cheating spouse, you may have to resort to tactics worthy of a private detective, and this may be something you are uncomfortable doing. My advice is, unless you are prepared to discover that your spouse is cheating on you, think long and hard before investigating.  Some men and women do not really want to know about their partners’ affair. Others are consumed with doubts, others are adamant they would rather know the absolute terrible truth.

If you decide to find out whether your partner is cheating on you there are a number of options. You could employ a private detective, but they are expensive and some of them can be cowboys. Only choose a reputable firm and ask for testimonials. Be very clear about what you are paying for and always get itemized bills and a proper invoice.

If you cannot afford a private detective, there is a lot of technology now available to help you catch a cheating spouse.

Computer software to catch a cheating spouse

Your partner may well be communicating with their lover by email, or perhaps a social network such as facebook. There is software available, called keylogger software, that records every single stroke of the computer keyboard. What you get is a transcript of everything your partner has typed; every site they have visited and even messages they have sent. To catch a cheating spouse in this way you need to install the software on the computer that they use, but it is not that difficult to do!

One company that offers this pc monitoring service is Ace Spy Software who have a remote package too plus a MAC version of their tracking and monitoring software.

Catch a Cheating Spouse through Email and Social networking

One thing you may want to find out is who is behind an email address and a service that finds that out for you is Email Finder. Trying to look up email addresses yourself is time consuming and complicated. One sure way to get the information you’re looking for is to enlist the help of an internet service that specializes in this kind of cyber- detective work. Navigating the internet isn’t the easiest thing to do when you’re looking for semi- personal information like the name of an email address owner, but internet investigation companies know where to look- and who to talk to.  This company offers a membership service or a one off fee , it is your choice. What you get with membership is unlimited email searches, search by name or  email address and social networking searches, results include members of LinkedIn, Facebook, Friendster, Bebo, Hi5, MySpace, and a dozen other social media websites. If you want to know more, the home page is here, EmailFinder

 Catch a cheating spouse on their cellphone

I have had a look at one way to track cellphone callers and numbers in my review of the phone detective service which can reverse lookup an unknown number you might find on your bill or in your spouse’s phone logs.  If you want to actually record what is being said, texted and snapped on your partners’ smartphone you need some mobile software.  the most talked about product is something called Mobile Spy.

This software is also kind of handy for yourself as you can use it to back up your own smartphone messages and data. If you have children you can use the GPS function to know where they are. It has a lot of different uses and is constantly updated and the company provides USA based support 7 days a week.

Technology supports gut instinct

If you have that gnawing feeling in your stomach that your partner is cheating on you it can be hard to think of anything else. Ignorance is not necessarily bliss! It may be hard to find out the truth and you may just be too scared to ask directly, or the denial sounds like a lie. To sort out problems in your relationship you need to know the truth. Your gut instinct is that something is wrong and technology can help you to find out if your instincts are correct, and catch a cheating spouse.