If you are reading this then you are probably suspecting your husband or partnerÂ isÂ one of theÂ cheating men. And like many other women out there, you are hoping he is not one of those cheating men. But the reality of it is, if you have no solid evidence you must get some first before you accuse him of this inexcusable act. Maybe you are one of the lucky women out there and he is not actually cheating yet, but obviously there is something wrong otherwise you wouldn’t be here, right? So lets see how we can avoid this happening at all costs.
Cheating men are looking outside their relationship for one reason or another.
Figuring out the many reasons why do men cheat is your number one goal if you want to save your relationship. Here are four great pointers that will help you to avoid the unthinkable.
1. Communication â€“ This is key in ALL kinds of relationships. You must be able to talk to each other about your problems. If there is lack of communication there, chances are he will go looking for someone else that he can talk to, and that will listen to what he has to say. Your partner is your equal not your child. Remember that because there is nothing worse in a mans eyes than his significant other talking to him like he is a child. Make sure you are open with him about the feelings you are having, and that will make him more apt to be open with you.
2. Let him have some time with his friends â€“ For most women, once they are in a relationship, they want to spend as much time with their partner as possible. Although, for the men this is great at first, they soon need the companionship of their male friends. Letting them go out a couple of times a month with their guy friends will make them appreciate you a lot more in the long run. If you are worried they will go out and find someone else, don’t be! Because if they do, then that proves they were not right for you in the first place and eventually it would have happened anyway.
3. Sex â€“ For most men (and women) sex is the most important part of a relationship. If you are no longer having sex with him, he will eventually go and find someone that will. Withholding sex or using it against him in some form or another will only make him resent you more. The old saying is that men think about sex every 7 seconds. With sex on their mind this much, no wonder it is such an important part of their life! Keep the sex going and keep it interesting!
4. Appreciate the small things â€“ Men like to feel appreciated as do all people. Even the smallest little tasks that us women take for granted, like doing the dishes or laundry, are great accomplishments for men, so be sure to thank him when he helps out.
Cheating men are usually looking elsewhere for something they are not getting at home. Keep all these factors above in mind and you should have a long and happy relationship.
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