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    Hi Guys!

    February’s News

    Well, I survived Valentine’s day! I have to admit, it is a time of year when I get quite anxious and feel a bit unsure of myself.  For those of you, like me who are surviving infidelity, the hype around LOVE can be a bit painful.  My partner was very understanding and we had a quiet, low key, but special day. We are both infidelity survivors so he understood how I felt, which was suspicious of anything too over the top!

    Yes, there were flowers, freesias, my favorite. Yes there were chocolates, but caramels, yummy and chewy! He made dinner, which was delicious, but we all sat down as a family and ate it, and my lovely sons made me cards telling me they loved me too.

    Then we all went back to our everyday lives, and I felt in some way that all the previous Valentine’s days of uncertainty and misery were somehow less important.

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    I have been busy writing, and will soon be able to show you the fruits of my labors.  I am due to have several books published on Amazon Kindle, and am really excited, and nervous at the same time!

    21 Reasons Why Men Cheat is still available on the site at a discounted price, but it will be on Amazon soon, and the price will go up!

    So, you may want to get in quick….

    21 Reasons Why Men Cheat  at a discounted price of

    ONLY $7.00

    To check out this book and read what some of my reviewers have said about it, go to  21 Reasons Why Men Cheat

      I have also been looking at other products and have started a review page called  I Like where you can see what I think of products that you may find useful. Watch out for some news on some self improvement books that a good friend of mine has written….tell you more later!

    Stress

    Many of my subscribers describe how stressful their lives are, and I do sympathize. I am working and maintaining this site, and running a home so I totally get it!

    I have written a 10 day E Course on How to Survive Stress, so go over and have a look….HERE... and sign up for some great information and some cool suggestions for products that can help! You might want to check out some fab bath de-stressing products and music to chill to in our STORE…I am a big fan of these particular methods to get rid of stress!

    Inspiration

    I do believe in the power of our own minds to heal and guide us, but sometimes we need help.  Some books I have found to be inspirationl and help me to focus on what is important can be found via my Inspire post.

    Inspiration Why Seek it?

    If  you sign up you can get a copy of these free books.  If you are already a subscriber, drop me a line and I will send you the link to download these books for FREE.

    tammy@surviveinfidelityhq.com

    Please let me know if there is anything else you would like me to review for you, write for you, or simply give you advice on, or a shoulder to cry on if you need it!

    Tammy

     

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