Relationship Help – Tammy Reviews

Hi there!

Welcome to my REVIEW page of Infidelity and Relationship Help products!

Below you can find honest reviews of products out there to help you with your relationship dilemmas!

I am going to start the ball rolling with a question I am asked so many times by those of you suffering the trauma of infidelity,

Should I Stay or Should I GO?????

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My personal mailbag is full of cries for relationship help..and that question gets asked more often than not, and yes, sometimes in my comments you will have seen me say LEAVE HIM!! I also say, STAY and work this out or you will regret not trying for the rest of your life.

Of course it is not easy to make the decision to leave a relationship…and sometimes staying is pretty darn hard too, so it is good to have help making this decision. The most important thing is to make this decision having spent time thinking it through, and really working out whether the relationship has life left in it or not.

In my search for answers to the difficult questions of surviving infidelity, I came across a couple of trained counselors who have written a book, called “Should You Stay  Should You Go?”, so I bought it to read, and here is what I think!

Firstly, the authors, Relationship Coaches Susie and Otto Collins have both been married before and are now happily married to each other! They have a really no nonsense approach to this subject, bringing a lot of their own experiences to the book. They have spent a lot of time working with people whose relationships are in trouble and they are also realistic about some relationships not being recoverable. From the reviews by their clients, and my own reading of their story, I think that relationship help from people who have seen both sides is the most useful.

I think that is what I like best about this book; it does not insist that you keep flogging a dead relationship because of some moral standpoint! It makes you look honestly at what is going on, but it also wants you to make an effort.

Relationship Help when you feel unable to make any decision!

The other aspect to this book whcih I think is excellent is the approach that NOT making any decision is definitely the WRONG thing to do! I would always advocate taking a breather if you find out about infidelity and not rushing into a decision straight away, but what makes me cry with frustration is the couples whose relationship is at a standstill!

I have a number of women write to me about serial cheaters..three four times their man cheats..and they do nothing! I have men write about their wives withdrawing, having emotional affiars and the man “hoping she’ll get over it”, NO NO NO!!!!

I know that a lot of you cannot always afford counseling, or cannot get your partner to agree to go..so a book that asks those hard questions and makes you THINK about your relationship is the next best thing!

The absolute worst thing you can do when you are unhappy in your relationship is to do NOTHING…it will not change, your husband/wife will not “get over it”..the distance between you will grow…and worse..the marriage can wither and die, when IT COULD HAVE BEEN SAVED!

So, if you want to

• Eliminate the uncertainty, and need relationship help to understand the decision to stay or go
• Take an honest look at your relationship and find the ways to bring love back into your life
• Stop feeling trapped not knowing which way to turn and worried that your friends and family all say something different

Then I suggest you have a look at this book/audio program.  You have a choice of formats; you can download it straight away or you can have it mailed to you (and also download it). It is slightly more expensive to have this sent to you as they need to cover the cost of postage etc.

You get a book and audio tapes of the whole process..it is not  book that tells you what to do, that is your decision. It is a guide , a proven process, to working your way through this decision, so that when you reach your conclusion you know you have thought it through properly, you have tried your very best to understand what makes your relationship tick, or not…and you are making the right decision FOR YOU. It is a sign of strength to ask for relationship help, it shows you care but sometimes we just don’t know who or how to ask!